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Ann ([personal profile] capri0mni) wrote in [community profile] queerly_beloved 2020-01-21 12:19 pm (UTC)

But that doesn't exactly rule anything out here?

It certainly does not. I think of my own asexuality in this way:

One: However I feel about the physical sensations of sex,* those feelings are not "sparked" or intensified by the involvement of other people.

Two: And the feelings I have for other people -- my sense of connection and care for them -- are not strengthened or made more important by the inclusion (or expectation) of sex.


*(I happen to be aegosexual, and happen to enjoy it -- as a solo activity, but it's not an enjoyment I'd plan my future life around; "Cake" is a stereotypical ace metaphor because it's apt)

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