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eris_discordia_novel ([personal profile] eris_discordia_novel) wrote in [community profile] queerly_beloved2020-12-23 09:20 pm

How does this all work now?

In general, I don't write introductions. In part, I don't feel as though I'm interesting.

I'm gendervague, femme presenting. I've never really fit into the skin i have, but it's really determined to hold a certain shape.
I'm a parent to a young person. They're pretty awesome and I'm probably not going to post about them - not my story.

I've done some sex work, mostly when I was younger, contact. I don't talk about it much because people can be incredibly judgemental, invasive and crass.
Mainly I do "entry level" type jobs and burn out every 5 to 7 years.

I'm a relationship anarchist and trying to navigate that with my life person and the folx around us.
I like a lot of the connections that I have. Sometimes though, I need distance. That's totally fun when my LP wants to be closer to who I need to be far from.

I'm usually wearing my resting bitch face, it's my go-to public face.
I'm neurodiverse and sometimes forget that my face does expressions "out loud". I'm also dancing the line between not wearing a mask and being rude in the context of social expectation and interaction.

Am I too old to still be a manic pixie dream girl?
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[personal profile] soc_puppet 2020-12-23 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
You're never too old to be a Manic Pixie Dream Girl; it's a state of mind!

Also, welcome!
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[personal profile] fred_mouse 2020-12-24 10:20 am (UTC)(link)

Welcome! I have known a manic pixie dream girl in their 80s, so I figure you're fine.

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[personal profile] jilder 2020-12-25 11:00 am (UTC)(link)
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!

*waves enthusiastically*

If you don't feel like manic pixies, distractible tieflings are also very popular at the moment, I'm told.